I judge people too often, and too harshly. I have to admit some of the people I judged a while back are now some of the closest people that I hold dearest to my heart. Normally when people get to know the peers that they have judged they become guilty of the bad deed they have done. I know I feel guilty because of this. It's hard, really hard, to not judge someone because it is just the way humans are. You can't sit there and tell me that you don't judge people. You can certainly try to block out first thoughts, but sorry, you can't. Recently, this girl I know has changed. That's not the problem, the thing is people started getting mad at her because of the way she is now. As I sat in the middle of all this chaos, I realized they aren't accepting that this is her life. It's a really sad thing to see how one decision can screw your friendships over. Why let it though?
Why do they care? Too often and too little do we
choose to not remember that its their life. If they want to screw it up then let them. If in the end they realize they made a mistake then leave it be. It all comes down to the fact we al live very different lives and people are people and they are bound to make an error. So before you go judging someone for whatever reason remember that it's their life, and they deserve to be treated fairly.
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